When you speak negatively about your situations you can have what you say and believe. Many underestimate the power of words and what type of impact that they will have on someone. We allow our emotions to get the best of us at times and fail to think before we speak and regret words that we can't take back.
We need to learn how to pick and choose our battles wisely, but most of all humble ourselves and learn how to bridle our tongues. We are so quick to think that we have to have the last word in everything but what some of us fail to realize is that we can have a more powerful affect if we remain in silence.
Let's learn to focus on less talking and more listening in life. Listening is not a sign of weakness, it's a major part in gaining wisdom. At times we tend to get way above ourselves trying to dictate and compromise with God trying to determine what He can and can not handle. We need to stop and humble ourselves because listening to God is way more important than giving Him your ideas.
Words are powerful, but God's Word is full of creative power. Don't allow your words to defeat you because life and death are in the power of your tongue. Remember God created the universe by speaking it into existence, words are very powerful, choose them wisely make sure you think before you speak.